Friday, January 31, 2020

Out of Step Boomer


Being an aging, privileged, white male has its perks. You get called "sir" a lot for one thing. Cashiers at the grocery store look at your disheveled, frumpy outfit with pity. And other old guys are ready and willing to confide in you their views of the world. Having made it, they think things are great and want to talk about good restaurants, pretty places to visit, the balm of being above the fray of making a living. Only problem is you're not part of that club. For one thing, you're not as rich, but that's not the main thing. You were a teacher for your career. They were architects, lawyers, real estate moguls, and trust funders. They are a comfortable, self-satisfied lot. I say this because too much comfort is like a drug, and it requires that you rationalize having so much with others of a like mind. You, however, see things differently, don't share the story that comfort in retirement is the highest good. You see all too well a world on fire, and, more importantly, you feel it, can't sleep for it, want to throw yourself on the gears of the machine in rebellion and defiance. It is time to devote your mind and heart to creative resistance, the imagination of something new, a more humane cultural, social, political, and, yes, economic narrative that includes and raises up the marginalized and outcast; you will burn with a light choosing generosity over fear. You will find your tribe and work together with them to lift each other up. You will give until it hurts and then give some more. Then, if necessary, you will be the first to clamber over the barricade, to take one for freedom, struggle, and equity. Sleep will come easier then and you can rest knowing you heard the call.

3 comments:

  1. You are a hero in my book. Every Saturday when you would show up for us who had been outcast, and they would pop the cell door, it was like a call to arms. Warriors were we and apathy the enemy. You reminded me of humanity. You reminded me of possibility. You walked into those gates with your pen held high, and charged headlong into fray.

    Like a frumpy William Wallace.

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  2. Hey Nate -- Thanks for the best thing I've read in a long time. The workshops reminded me of my humanity too. There was magic in them.
    So admire what you are doing and the difference you are making with your creative gifts and hard work.
    Keep it up, my friend, keep it up.

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  3. If “comfort” is “like a drug” then it would obviate rationalization. Aiming at “others of a like mind” is right on though: most want allies (for comfort, i.e. reassurance) to confirm their choices. I find it striking that the “successful” are most inclined to seek this comfort. So “insecurities” characterize most lives. Does “the world” really demand anything of us? I say no: it’s OUR survival that calls for action. Is there resistance? Again no: it’s the young against the old, as usual. The young eventually win, insofar as they take over. So why confront the old? Instead, I embrace the new (as Heine proposed...). Thanks for your thinking Erec. See ya...

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